Uhuh Chris Brown

Okay....so here are some pics of Chris Brown at the tattoo parlor with some girl over the weekend. Now I don't want to jump to conclusions and say that this is his new girl, but ummm that's what it look like. Doesn't she look a lot like Natalie Mejia from that fake girl group Girlicious? Not confirming anything, just pointing out that there's a strong resemblance. Hmmmm....

"Notebook" Chrisette Michele

This is the second single from Chrisette Michele's new album, "Epiphany." It's called "Notebook" and I'm sort of digging it. I don't think it's as good as the first single, but it definitely has potential especially if it's paired with a great music video. I noticed that Chrisette has been aiming for a different sound than what was on her previous album. I can't wait until her album comes out. I believe the date is still May 5th. I'll let you know if I hear different.

Playing in the Backyard

I haven't really been keeping up on news stories but I remember awhile ago Michelle Obama worked on the White House gardens with some kids. I finally looked at some of the pics and saw this one:Hahaha. Barack and Hillary talking in the backyard sitting at a picnic table! Looks like Hillary is just going on and on and Barack is just throwing in "yeahs" periodically. I wonder if they took turns on the slide afterwards...

I Feel Old

Check out Keisha Knight-Pullman aka Rudy Huxtable at her 30th birthday party. I can't believe she's 30. She looks amazing and it seems like yesterday she was just a little girl on the Cosby Show. Now, if she's 30 that means I'm getting older as well, which sucks :(
Also: I really like her outfit. The blouse is too cute. I might have to do a little research and find out what it is and for how much.

Sexism: Part 2/LOL! Get a Life!

WOW.... look at what this fool just wrote back to me.

Obviously u have misinterpreted what I've said. However I stand by what i have said, I am not sexist nor misogynistic, but that's how you have just took it. I would've thought you as a lover of philosophy you would have understood what I was trying to say. But you are coming from a very emotional place.

There is nothing for me to be ashamed about. A woman will respect me, because I respect myself and because I am who I am not what I'm not. I have much respect for woman, but I do not respect all women for they are not worth respecting. As far as you're concerned you barely got to know me, because truth be told you wasn't hearing me. Instead you write this disrespectful letter and attack me for something you obviously don't understand.

I have alot of common sense but it you know anything all sense is not common. But obviously you need to do what alot of philosopher's do and ask Why. Use your objective reasoning and find out why I would say something like that instead of reacting subjectively. If I decide to have a real relationship with a black woman, she will have the wisdom that you obviously lack and 72% of single black women as well. A real woman would put up with the so called "crap" because she understand that what I tell her is not to dominate her but to create stability for our home and relationship. A real man wouldn't put up with the feminist contaminated mindset that you have and if he does he doesn't know his worth and is a Bitch. Don't ever send me a disrespectful letter AGAIN. Especially on Easter. How dare you! Either debate with me on a mature and civil matter or keep your opinions and views to yourself. Have a happy Easter Leslie

WOW! I can ignore the personal insults because dude is clearly a jackass. However, the sexism just runs rampant through this conversation...."she will have the wisdom that you obviously lack and 72% of single black women as well," I'm coming from a "very emotional place" and my personal favorite, "she understands that what I tell her is not to dominate her but to create stability for our home and relationship." ARE YOU SERIOUS? Then he starts off by saying that he's not sexist or misogynistic. Clearly you need a dictionary!

I will write my own personal thoughts about this incident in a couple of hours. I have a lot to say....

Sexism: Part 1

So for the first time in 5 years I am actively dating. That's right: I am taking boyfriend applications! I have high standards so of course many that have applied have been rejected rather swiftly. But I've tried to keep an open mind and give everyone an equal opportunity. I've come across many jerks in the process but this one takes the cake:

So this one guy in particular I was talking to on AIM frequently (I no longer give out my phone number--no use in wasting my minutes on these fools) and from the conversations I thought he was a tad sexist. I wasn't sure though, but it didn't matter. I just didn't feel like we were clicking so on to the next applicant. He started a blog and I decided to read his latest entry. Here are a few excerpts:

"We need to flat out tell these women that we expect certain things from them. We have to expect them to do more than suck and f*ck us. King Flex would say that you have to give a woman "chores" to do, which piggy backs on what this video is talking about."

"I'm saying that you should expect her to cook sometimes, do the laundry, and clean. Hell, Atleast let that chick clean after herself. This is why foreign women are so appealing because these values have been brained into her since she was a child. So fellas, have better standards and expectations."

WOW. Get the fuck outta here with that shit! I was livid, but decided to calm down and give a simple response:

"I think you're out of your mind. How could you EVER say something like that with an ounce of common sense? I thought you were more educated than that. You are sexist and misogynistic and you should be ashamed to be a "young black man" with views like that. Since you have no respect for women, how can women have any respect for you? "Men" who think like that want a woman to be inferior to them to make them seem more of a man.

Talking to you on AIM you seemed sexist but I wasn't sure. This just confirmed it for me. Word of advice: You seem like a really nice guy but your attitude needs to change. If you want to have a real relationship with an intelligent, beautiful, black female you need to re-evaluate what you're saying. A real woman is not going to put up with this crap."

But to be honest, I have a WHOLE lot more to say about this. I will write a post as soon as I'm done with this Ancient Philosophy Term Paper.

Another Pair of Choos

Jimmy Choo "Seattle" Sandal in Olive, $795. Adjustable strap with buckle closure, criss-crossing tightly-woven straps of canvas, with a leather upper and sole, logo embossed gold tone buckle, and 4 3/4 inch heel.

Badgley Mischka Fall 2009

Mines!

This is the tote that I'm going to get next week! I'm sooo excited. It's Michael Kors "Panama" Large Shoulder Tote. It's made of straw, leather, and gold tone hardware and comes in black, luggage, and white, $298.

Super Cool Watch

I think this watch by Marc Jacobs is super cool (reminds me of Nightmare Before Christmas). It's a Skeleton Watch that displays the time in its cut out features. Hours are displayed in the nose and the minutes are displayed in one of the eyes in 5 minute increments. Also, the watch is water-resistant up to 30 meters. Get it for $200 at Nordstrom. Also, check out some of the other watches from the Marc by Marc Jacobs collection (all available at Nordstrom):

Death to the Word Swagger

Kiddie Activity

So everyone knows Leslie loves the kids! I have to babysit tomorrow and I think I'm going to do an activity with pasta since I have like 3 boxes of it in my cupboard. All you have to do is put some rubbing alcohol and some food coloring in a ziplock baggy, put the pasta in it and let it sit, then take it out to dry. Then the kids can take glue and stick it to construction paper. This will keep them mildly entertainment for ohhh.....all of 20 minutes.

I Don't Get It

This chick Cassie just shaved part of her head. I don't understand this at all. But honestly, I could kinda care less and I'm not even sure why I am writing about this no-name on my blog. The only reason why this "singer" (and I use this term loosely) is even relevant is because she's Diddy's p***y, oh I mean protégé.

Movie: Obsessed

Obsessed comes out April 24th and I actually want to see it. I thought from the preview it looked kinda decent and I'm anxious to see Beyoncé's acting skills. Plus, Idris Elba (is that his name?) isn't that bad to look at either. However, have you noticed that Beyoncé has done very little promotion of this movie? I know she's on tour and everything but honestly she could squeeze in some promo here and there. Maybe I'm wrong, but I haven't seen her say anything about this movie. Is that a signal that it's wack? Well when I go see it I'll let you know.

I Think I Need a Dental Exam

So I normally like all the shows on Bravo: Make Me a Supermodel, Real Housewives, and Millionaire Matchmaker. I switch to Bravo today to see what's on and they are showing reruns of a show that premiered a coupled of years ago called Million Dollar Listing. It's about some young real estate guys (Chad, Josh, and Madison) in California selling million dollar houses (duh). The show is really wack to me because these guys are incredibly young and just seem like overall posers. One (the one on the left) claims that he's 30! Yeah right....

But I did catch the first few episodes of the second season and the highlight was a buyer named Dr. Sam Saleh (below). Lord hammercy! I need to make an appointment with this man ASAP! Honestly, I truly believe he's the only straight guy on the show. I did a lil research on this man and he has a thriving dental practice in Beverly Hills...and he's single.

"Fish Sticks"

So South Park did Kanye West in an episode entitled "Fish Sticks." It was hilarious! At least Kanye thought it was too and actually said it humbled him. Here's a brief clip below:

Spring Green

I really like huge handbags and this one by Michael Kors is no exception. Its the Ganesevoort Large Vertical Tote and comes in Green, Blush, Black, and Walnut, $498. All leather, cinched at the top, removable shoulder strap, interior pockets, key clip, and protective metal feet.

New Jersey Style

So I watched the first season of Real Housewives of Orange County, both seasons of Real Housewives of New York, Real Housewives of Atlanta (new season coming soon!), and now Bravo has come up with Real Housewives of New Jersey. Basically the show is real stereotypical: thick New Jersey accents, big Italian family, and really loud and abrasive women. I can't imagine any of the women being my "favorite" of the show. However, from the preview it seems that there is a huge blow-up at the end between the women that is gonna make for MUST-SEE tv. So I'll tune in from time to time.

Senseless...

I am totally angry and saddened right now. 32 Chicago Public Schools have gotten shot since September. This is really scary and senseless. To be honest, I'm angry. Why are these kids allowed to be on the streets? Why aren't the streets safe in the first place? Why is it that anyone can get a gun? Many of these kids are getting shot by adults not their peers. What threat is a 14 to 17 year old to you? And some of these kids are younger than that. I teach CPS students at a Saturday enrichment program and I've been told many stories about what they have to go through on a daily basis and the incidents they have witnessed. This one girl told me that she was an eyewitness to a shooting that took place right in front of her school. I can never imagine going to school and being afraid. Even the CTA buses aren't safe. An innocent girl was shot and killed, riding on the bus, minding her own damn business. What is going on? There has to be an answer.

When Will This End?

You're Dead To Me

Here I was praising that stupid Amber Rose: "Oh she has such a pretty smile" and "She's a Baaaad Bitch!" F--- that now Amber Rose! I was reading Necole Bitchie/Baller Alert and came across this quote:

“A friend of mine in Philly is friends with Miss Amber and claims that Amber is tired of Kanye. She says that Kanye calls her looking for Amber when he can’t reach her himself. My friend says that Amber says there is no more chase. Kanye tells Amber how many girls would die to be in her place and tells her to do this and that. She also says Kanye wakes Amber up and says, ‘I’m ready to have sex.’”

Trick you have some NERVE! (1) If Kanye calls you, bitch you better pick up! (2) No more chase? I'm sure you gave him the goodies early on so what are you complaining about? (3) Kanye is absolutely right. I would DIE to be her! (4) If Kanye tells you to jump, bitch you better jump! (5) If Kanye West wakes me up to have sex oh please believe he won't have to ask me twice.

The man has taken you to Europe, all these Fashion Weeks, bought you things......basically took you from the strip club to the lavish life. How DARE you play MY man for a fool! Amber Rose you are dead to me. No more posts on you!

I really like her purse though....Michael Kors?

Starstruck or Delusional?

I always thought Meagan Good was on drugs but this new single has just confirmed it for me. She now wants to get into the music business with this new song "Starstruck." The beginning of the song is super weird and annoying and her vocals overall aren't too hot. Now I do have to admit that the song isn't terrible; however, if this is her genuine attempt to get into music she needs to go back to the studio. Meagan you FAIL. Try again....

Michelle & Mom

Here's Michelle Obama and her mother on the cover of Essence Magazine. They look just alike! Notice one of the articles is "President Obama: Why I'm Thankful For My Wife." Awww....aren't they like the perfect couple? They always say super loving things about each other. I definitely want what they have when I get married (whenever that will be).

Sexy Strappy Sandals

Oooo. I like these Jimmy Choo Flynn Strappy Sandals in Vintage Gold, $735.

Haha Check This Out!

This made my day. Kept me occupied for a good 5 minutes!
http://www.najle.com/idaft/

Check it Out!

That's What You Get

LOL! So LuAnn (above) off of the Real Housewives of New York is getting a divorce from her husband the Count. Honestly, for being as pretentious and annoying as she is, she kinda deserves this (i know that sounds bad). Apparently the Count cheated on her with this Ethiopian (random!) woman and is filing to divorce LuAnn. I actually feel kinda bad for her; then again, LuAnn was his fourth wife. She should have known he wasn't a great husband. Plus, he's one of the spouses that is rarely on the show. He's always on "business." Hee hee hee. I'm sure he was....

Also, I can't stand this new "housewife" Kelly. She's basically crazy. Straight looney tunes. The way she treated Bethany was totally uncalled for. I'm surprised Bethany didn't smack her up and down. Nevertheless, I'll continue to watch the show until my anxiously awaited Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 2 starts in the fall.

Bey & Kelly Drama

I haven't really commented on this Beyoncé and Kelly drama but I guess I'll weigh in on it. In case you haven't heard the rumors, some people believe that Kelly is actually Matthew Knowles' illegitimate daughter and although Matthew was her manager, he was actually sabotaging her career to further Beyoncé's.

Here's what I have to say about this:
I've always heard that Kelly was Beyoncé's cousin and it was a little strange that she had been living with them since she was 10. However, everyone has their own family situation, so who knows. Is Kelly really Beyoncé's father's daughter? Hmm. I don't know. Tina Knowles doesn't seem like someone who would let Kelly move up in there with them. But if Kelly is Beyoncé's half sister so what?

We all know that Beyoncé is Matthew Knowles' priority. But that's his daughter. Yeah, he's gonna put her in the front, give her the best outfits, and have her sing lead vocals. That's his daughter! People need to get real and give the man some credit in creating a super star.

And are we seriously going to blame Kelly's career on Matthew as a manager? Can Kelly sing like Bey? Ummm no. Can she dance like Bey? Nope. Could she put on a show like Bey? No. Kelly is not half as talented as Bey--point blank. And I wish people would really think about this. Solange is Matthew's daughter as well and her career is a tad crappy. That's on her lack of talent, nothing else. Matthew put his effort into Beyoncé because she had the talent. Common sense people. Stop making a big deal out of nothing.

All Over the World

Wow. Beyoncé has been all over the world. She was just in Europe, Canada, Seattle, and now here she is with Jay-Z in New York this past weekend. She looks great. I actually love those suspenders.
Also, doesn't she look kinda like Halle Berry in that second pic?

I'm the Sh*t!

Here's something to get you dancing to! This song is called "I'm the Sh*t" from DJ Class featuring (my man) Kanye West and coincidently it's my sh*t right now. Definitely not suitable for listening to at work for obvious reasons. But it has that club/house music beat that will get you dancing. I have to put my speakers up full blast when I listen to this.
Random: Doesn't my man looks pretty sexy in this picture? Minus the chest hair....

J. Lo & Marc

Here is Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez at the VIP premiere of TopShop. She looks great in this leather outfit and notice she's wearing the same Ferragamo's in a different color. J. Lo can do no wrong with me.
Love her.
And Marc ain't that bad lookin either...

Random Tidbits

Random.....
Jamie Foxx (my birthday buddy) had a stalker. Apparently this guy was posing as Beyoncé's music producer and tried to force himself into Jamie's hotel room or something to that effect. He had been seen lingering around him on other occasions as well. He was charged. (If you haven't noticed, if you want a full story or one with facts you need to go to another site)

Madonna's Malawi adoption was not approved. For some reason, I'm happy about this. On the one hand, I don't want this little girl left in an orphanage. However, I'm tired of these celebrities thinking they can just fly off to another country and pick a child to adopt. Word to Madonna: there's a lot of Tyrone's, Jose's, and Shereefa's in the US that would love to be adopted.

Disappointment

For the past couple of weeks I have been planning the budget for this speaker, which I needed approved by my school's allocation committee. To my disappointment, it wasn't approved because it was extremely expensive. I'm just a tad annoyed that we can spend around $10,000 for 3 or 4 random speakers, instead of just investing $30,000 for a really well-known, influential and informative speaker. I was peeved and extremely angry last night with both the process and the decision. However, that anger has turned to motivation and I'm determined to get this man to speak at my school. The more I think about it--I need to use this process of anger turned into motivation to positively influence other parts of my life as well...

Found Them!

Found the pumps that Jennifer Lopez wore in Tokyo earlier this week. They're Salvatore Ferragamo! I feel like I accomplished something today....

Rihanna Houston

Rihanna has been looking extra fierce lately. Probably to show everyone that a Chris Brown beat down is not going to stop her swag. Here she is out and about with her assistant, Melissa Ford (not the one you're thinking of). She looks great...

Except for that hair! What's going on? Where's Ursula your hair stylist? Why do you look like you have a Whitney Houston wig on your head? She could have easily slicked it down with some Jam! I hate to say it, but she kinda looks a mess. I'd put a "You Look a Mess" tag on this post, but I'm giving RiRi a freebie today. Just don't let it happen again...

Two Kimmies!

So Kim Kardashian came to cheer on Lil' Kim on the last episode of Dancing With the Stars. Kim K didn't make it all the way the season she was on DWTS, but I hope Lil' Kim does. From what I've heard she's been doing very well. I haven't been able to watch it because of my House-obsessed roommate (they air at the same time), but I'll peep the YouTube videos soon.

My First Blog Request!

Leslie,

I have a request for your blog--how about a short haircut
recommendation? You have perfume and shoes and handbags, so I don't
think it would be too much of a stretch. I really need a haircut cuz
my 'do is getting shaggy, but I don't feel like I'm really up on
what's in style now (being in South Africa and all). I'm looking at
these two photos of short celeb cuts that I really like, but I'm
thinking maybe they're a bit old. Let me know what you think!

My first blog request! I am taking this as a personal mission to find the perfect short cut! I actually love short hair and have been contemplating cutting my hair off myself. But styles do change and truthfully, I don't know exactly what's in. But I promise by the end of the day I will find a picture of the perfect cut.